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May 9, 2008
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:23 pm
Dear Caryn:
I am very sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. She battled her disease bravely. You were a great support and comfort, not only to her but to your father and the rest of the family. I hope that you find some comfort in knowing how much pleasure you gave your mother – in good times and more recently.
I am just back from 4 days in Israel – consulting at Hadassah in Jerusalem and Tel Hashomer [Sheba Medical Center] in Tel Aviv. We have a full schedule this weekend but will see what we can do in terms of getting to see you and the family. Please know that your mother and your family have been in my thoughts throughout.
Best,
STAN
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:27 pm
My dear Caryn and family:
I spoke to Aunt Carole today. My heart and my thoughts are with you all. I can’t even begin to tell you how sorry and sad I am for all of you. I knew that she suffered and endured so much so that she could spend as much time with all of you as possible. Helene was one of the bravest people I have ever known. Your Aunt kept me informed as I asked about your mom every day. Unfortunately, I will be unable to attend the funeral tomorrow. I am hopeful to get to see everyone the week of Shiva. Please send my love to everyone for me and relay my deepest, deepest condolences.
All my love,
Linda (Bobis) Bernstein
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Dear Caryn,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I know that this must be a very difficult time for you and your family. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that I am sending you a long overdue hug.
I wish that I could be with you tomorrow and in the days ahead. I am just 9 months pregnant and on modified bedrest for the moment. Please know that I would be with you if I could and I am.
Take care of yourself,
With love and friendship always,
Randi
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:31 pm
Carl and I send you our heartfelt sympathy and prayers in this tragic time. God bless you all
Bill McClellan
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:31 pm
my dearest friend, caryn,
i know that my words may not help much during your time of grieving. however, please know that we are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
i love you & i miss you,
silvia, marco y dieguito
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:32 pm
Please accept my condolence’s to your family, particularly your father. Your father and I were neighborhood friends during high school and college. Sorry I cannot come to the service or pay a Shiva call since I live in KY.
Marvin Fleischman
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Caryn – I’m so saddened to hear this news. I’m thinking about you and I’m praying for your mom and your family during this difficult time. I will see you soon to pay my respects and please let me know if there is anything that I can do…if there’s anything that you need help with.
Leah
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:35 pm
Dear caryn,
I am so SO sorry to hear this terrible news. I was hoping that somehow she would make it through. I can’t believe that with all of today’s technology and advancements, this horrible disease still manages to take so many. And the best ones too.
How are you holding up? You sound so composed and amazing in your emails, your mom would be so proud of you. But Im sure though that this has taken an extreme toll on you and I wish that I could just infuse you with strength to get through it.
Well, you’re going to be busy for a while so i dont expect an answer but when things quiet down if you feel like spilling your guts, im here for you, many miles away in person, but right there in spirit with you.
Love,
Annie
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:36 pm
Caryn…Im really sorry to hear about your mother..Ill call you when all the services are over,,,I hope to see you soon out on the east end..Im sorry I cant make it to the funeral…
Love
Eamonn
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:53 pm
Caryn, I am so very sorry to hear about your mom. My heart hurts for you and your family and we are all thinking of you. I will let you know when I will be coming by.
Again, I am so sorry.
Love,
Nicole
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Caryn,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I know it was a long tough battle and I can only imagine how hard it has been on you. I have dealt with Cancer in my family on more occasions than I would like to remember. My grandmother recently passed fighting it and my mother has had a rather serious bout with it as well. I know how much it can weigh on your mind 24 hours a day. Anyway, I never met your mom but if she was anything like you I am sure I would have liked her. I am sure she was proud to see you grow up to be who you are today too.
If you need anything, to vent or just scream feel free to call me. Again, my condolences.
-Brian
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Dear Caryn,
I am so sorry to hear your mother’s passing…. and to miss her
funeral today. Please accept my condolences.
I am sure you are going to be busy for a while. Jeff and I will try to
come to Shiva next Tuesday, and hope to see you then.
Asako Binstock
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asako nagakura |
April 15, 2012 at 7:15 pm
gold digger
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 1:49 pm
David,
Me deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Your mom was a gem, a peaceful, beautiful and loving mother. I am certain she will be missed immensely. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you for including me in this notice. I will say kaddish.
Your friend,
Lawrence
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 1:49 pm
Dear David, I am here in California at Lawrence’s home, when he received the sad news. Please accept our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have some very fond memories of your family and simply wish to extend my sympathy to your dad, brothers and sisters. sincerely gloria wein
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 1:52 pm
Phil, Mia, Charlie, Jake, and Alex,
Alan, Stephanie, Andrew, and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy in the passing of your mother (grandmother).
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of sorrow.
To my regret I will not be able to attend the funeral tomorrow since I have to pick Andrew up from school at 1:00 in Connecticut but I will see you over Shiva.
If there is anything I can do for you let me know.
Again my deepest sympathy!!!
“Hamakom yinachem etchem, b’toch sha’ar aveley Tzion v’Yerushalayim.”
May God comfort you among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem!
Ann Gabel
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LAMPERT FAMILY |
May 9, 2008 at 5:33 pm
To all the wondeful members of the Whitman family….There are no words to express our sadness. What a wonderful woman we had the opportunity to have as a member of our extended family! She was a pillar of strength and beauty and charm and warmth. Our sincere sympathy at this difficult time. David had surgery this week so we were unable to attend the funeral but you have been in our thoughts. Hold on to those wonderful memories and know that you are all loved. Sincerely, Lisbeth and David Lampert
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:38 pm
Hi Caryn,
I called your parents’ home, but I wanted to make sure I made contact with you too. Thank you for including me on your email. I am very sad to hear about your mother’s passing, as are many others who know her here. I cannot imagine how difficult this time is for your family…and in my eyes, especially for you and your father. In all the families I have encountered, I believe your mother had one of the most loving and encouraging supports/caretakers in you as her daughter and in your dad as her husband. You and your family are in my thoughts.
I am glad to have had a chance to meet an amazingly strong and resilient woman within a wonderful family.
Chelsea
Chelsea Chin, LMSW
Department of Social Work
Hematology-Oncology
New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical Center
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:44 pm
My wonderful brother Yaz,
At sad times like this, we always say “I don’t know what to say”. You and I know better. We always know what to say.
I know we loved each other as we were growing up, (except for the times you wouldn’t let me recite Shakespeare in the corner of my small room).
We were very fortunate to flourish into adults, each of us in our own style. You married Helene, I married Warren. You fathered five children. I had two children.
Helene left us today. We are all deeply pained. Everyone whose life she touched, even for just a fleeting moment, will remember her. Helene’s brilliant smile, her warm and giving heart, her kooky ways and her zest for life will be deeply etched in our hearts and minds, never to cease remembering her.
You my dearest brother, have lost an incredible partner, David, Philip, Kenny, Lisa Beth and Caryn you have lost a mother, a best friend. Grandma Sylvia has lost an irreplaceable daughter. Everyone in our family has lost beautiful Helene.
My G-d give you strength through this very sad time in your life.
Your loving Sis
Carol
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:46 pm
Dear Caryn,
I’m very sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. Thank you for letting us know.
Our best wishes to you and your family during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Damon Nelson
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:47 pm
Caryn,
I am so saddened by your loss and my heart goes out to you and your family. I know you all fought a courageous battle and we were praying the outcome would come out differently. Please know that Brad and I are here for you in any way that we can be of help and support.
Love,
Lauren Sokol
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:47 pm
Caryn
We are saddened to learn of the loss of your Mother Helene.Please express our condolences to Joel,your sisters and brothers.
As we are still in FL we will be unable to join your family at this time.But Helene and each of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
In sorrow,
Ann & Bill Westerfield
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Car,
I have been thinking about you a lot lately and I am so upset I have not just picked up the phone and called. I am so very sorry about your mother. I am sure the past few months have been very difficult for you and your family. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I will be calling in the next few weeks to check in and see how your holding up. I am due May 26th, so i will try to call before then. Please know I am thinking about you and am so sorry for your loss.
Love you,
Robyn
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:49 pm
My prayers and positive thoughts are with you and your family.
Solomon
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Caryn,
Our deepest sympathy to you. I’m so sorry to hear this news. I know this is a hard time so if there’s anything we can do please let us know.
Minh and Angela
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Caryn, Tom told us the sad news. I’d like to offer my personal, deepest condolences. Wishing you strength in a difficult time.
Sincerely,
Matt
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:50 pm
Caryn, my most sincere condolences. Sending you lots of love. Andy Stone
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carynmartine |
May 9, 2008 at 8:50 pm
Not much to say, other than that I am terribly, terribly, sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff Binstock
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Barry Sulam and Family |
May 10, 2008 at 10:02 am
Joel and family
Our warmest feelings go out to you and your children at this time of sorrow. As I read the comments of condolesences and see how many others care for your family I am reassured of something I have learned about sorrow and love. If so many friends and family have shared your sorrow then your burden has been divided amongst us all and perhaps the lighter load will make it possible for the many wonderful memories to rise up inside your hearts and lift your spirits. I want to share in celebrating in Helene’s most prolific life of love and caring for a special Whitman family with you, from afar away in montana. Please extend my feelings to your extended brood and continue to love each other as Helene did for everyone who touched upon her shining life, including me.
Love
Barry Sulam, and family in Bozeman, Montana
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 10:58 am
Dear Caryn,
Please accept my sincere sympathies on the passing of your mother. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I enjoyed reading (with tears in my eyes) the blog, of you, and your brother’s wonderful memories of your mother. She was such a joyful person, you must cherish every memory, treasures that eventually you will pass along to your children and extended family. Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, in this difficult time. fondly Maggie
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:01 am
Hi honey,
I know we never get a chance to talk or see each other, but I just wanted to drop you a note to tell you that I’m thinking of you. There might be nothing more difficult than what you’re going through right now but you’re strong and utterly fabulous; doubtlessly a tribute to the woman who raised you.
I hope you know that you’re surrounded by people who love you.
Take care of yourself,
xxoo
Liz
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:02 am
Caryn,
Thank you for sharing the blog. I read through many of the stories you and your siblings posted, and they are so touching. It is always nice to read stories filled with so much love and openness. She sounds like she was a wonderful person, and I am glad to have had the opportunity to learn about her. Thanks again.
Tom
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:05 am
Caryn,
We’re here in Washington Sq. Park with a girl singing beautifully. Only in NYC! She just sang a song about a loved one saying that she’ll always be there…..in the breeze. And I thought of you.
I know for sure that I don’t know how you’re feeling. But I would imagine it would be a waves of emotion.
You must be surrounded by loved ones but please me know if there’s anything I can do.
-Chris Murdoch
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:06 am
Caryn,
You must be in much pain now, but also relieved to be able to remember your mom in such a beautiful way. I read the eulogies online and they are remarkable. No more doctors, medicines, beeps, monitors or countless tests, but only the beautiful memories that you shared with your mom and family.
No words can help you through the loss of your mother, so I will stop writing them. Just know that we love you and wish we could be there for you to help you through this.
Call when you feel like talking.
Love and more hugs,
Brad and Lauren
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:23 am
Phil –
I’m very sorry to hear about your mother. The last time you and I spoke, you mentioned your need to get to the hospital but I didn’t realize the seriousness of the situation. Please accept my condolences.
Jack Schatz
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:24 am
Hi Phil,
I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Please let me know if you need anything.
Angela
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:24 am
I am so sorry for your loss- there are no words that can be said to comfort you and your family at this difficult time. Just know she is in a better place now- I am here should you need anything
Nancy
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:25 am
Phil
I was just with Tom who told me about your mother’s passing. As having gone through this not so long ago, I understand all the emotions you are experiencing now and know there is nothing I can really say to ease your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. Again, my condolences.
Linda Garibaldi
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:26 am
Phil
I want to express my deepest condolences on the loss of your mom. I know it has been a struggle the last few months. Hopefully you can all find peace in this difficult time.
Bruce Gorman
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:26 am
Phil;
Pat and I send our sincere sympathies to you and your family on your Mom’s passing.
Our prayers are with you all during these very difficult times.
Pat and Bob
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:27 am
Phil,
I am really sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. I’m sure you were very close with her. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Warmest Regards,
Rob
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:28 am
Hello Phil
I am really sad to know about your loss. I wanted to convey my condolence for the tragedy.
Regards
Tanvi Shah, CPA (VT)
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:28 am
Phil , sorry for your loss .My best wishes to you and your family going forward.
Regards
Michael Tasch, CPA
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:29 am
I’m sorry to hear about you mother. I went through mother’s cancer and I know how devastating it can be. My thoughts are with you.
Michael Einbinder
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:30 am
Phil
Sorry to hear about your mom.
Our condolences are with you and your family.
Richard Fleder
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:30 am
Hello Philip,
You have my deepest sympathies regarding the passing of your mother. I will keep her in my prayers.
Jerry
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:31 am
Phil, I’m so very sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family. I will see you at your parents’ house in a couple of days.
Jason B. Lloyd
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:31 am
Hi Phil:
I want to express my deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss. I know that mere words cannot express what you are going through. Thesco will be donating $100 to the Helene Whitman Cancer Fund. I’m sorry I can’t be at the service tomorrow as I’m traveling but my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Karin
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:32 am
Dear Phil,
We are very sorry to hear this. Please receive our deep condolences,
Hana & Kfir
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:32 am
Hi Philip:
I was so sorry to hear about your Mom and was just glad I was able to spend some time with her and your family yesterday. I emailed Jeff the sad news and am forwarding you his sentiments. I will see you tomorrow.
Love, Andrea
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:33 am
Hi Phil,
I’m sorry to hear about your mom, my condolences goes out to you and your family. =o(
Take Care.
~Sharon
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:33 am
I am so saddened by your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise Accardi
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:33 am
Phil,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Hopefully over time the pain will ease and you will be left with only the fond memories.
Mark
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:34 am
Philip:
I wanted to express my condolences to you and your family.
I will not be able to attend the funeral service today. Perhaps next week we can talk.
Regards, Claire
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:35 am
Phil,
We are so sorry for your lose.
Please send our love to Mia and the boys.
If there is anything we can do for you
Just let us know.
Our Love,
Danielle ,Albert and the boys
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:35 am
hi
i’m very sorry about your mom, we will come for the shiva call next week.
again very sorry for your loss
Ed Klebanov
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:36 am
Phil, my condolences to you and your family. Sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Mother – we will keep her in our prayers.
Regards,
Anthony Chan
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:36 am
I am very sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I know how hard it is to lose someone close. Chris-
Christian J Covello
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:37 am
Hi Phil:
Sorry for your loss.
My best to you and your family
Joel Bieber
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:37 am
Phil,
I am sorry to hear the passing of your mom.
Sincerely,
Gary & Jamie Katz
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:38 am
I’m very sorry to hear that Phil.
My condolences to you and your Family.
David S. Kates, JD, CLTC
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:39 am
I am saddened by this news. I have such warm and pleasant memories of Aunt Helene. Please convey my most sincere condolences to the family.
Love,
Jeffrey Turk
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carynmartine |
May 12, 2008 at 11:41 am
Hi Jodi,
I am so very sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. Boy, when it rains it pours, doesn’t it!
I hope that you know that I will always do what I can to help you in any way that I possibly can, as you have always been terrific to me. I also owe both you and your husband a drink or 2 or 3, but I may have to make that dinner one night. For now, just take care or yourself and please pass my condolences to your husband as well.
Regards,
Joe Certo
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Paul Goodstat |
May 12, 2008 at 4:17 pm
Joel, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The comments of your children, family and friends make it clear that Helene was an extraordinary woman.
Elinor and I hope that the many happy memories of you life together will ease your pain.
With sympathy,
Paul